As a dutiful daughter, wife, mom and even employee I have often put what was needed in these roles ahead of what I needed.  Somewhere along the line I decided the outcome was more important than the process, that others were more important than me, that life had to be either or. 

In serving others I was telling myself a false story that I could not serve myself.  (Tweet that!)

Now, I realize that I can do both and so can you!